Assign a number from 1 to 6 for how often you have felt each of these, and then add the numbers together and divide by 10.
1 = Excellent marriage
2 = Good marriage
3 = Some problems to work out
4 = Burnout has been reached
5 = Help is needed right away
This test is not a diagnostic test. It is simply used to help couples recognize what is happening in their marriage and take steps before burnout occurs.
Understanding the Bigger Picture
Middle-aged couples are often caught up in a “perfect storm” of work-related stress, dealing with aging children, changes in career, and personal reflections on life satisfaction. One spouse may find comfort in the family, while the other one seeks to advance their career. This can easily create tension within the marriage if not worked-through.
“Couples who actively address midlife role conflicts through communication and shared problem-solving report significantly higher satisfaction than those who avoid these issues,” a research suggests.
Marriage burnout, while difficult, is not the end of the story. Couples who are able to identify the problem early and work through it with open communication and a commitment to maintaining their connection and personal growth can often come out the other side with a stronger, richer, and more resilient marriage.
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